Advice dating recently divorced man
When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok.
Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean.
Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids.
One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.
SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.
Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love.
Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.
Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Don’t be an idiot and don’t be afraid of being one either. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make.