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I haven’t, but I don’t harshly judge people that have because I understand why they would.
Have you ever spied on someone to see if they’re still using the site when you think you’re starting to get serious?
How did you feel when you saw that they were “active within 24 hours”?
Did you confront/question your partner about their recent activity on the site or remain silent?
Did you feel you SHOULD continue to date other people because they were still active?
Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
People are so quick to snap up something half-hearted and then try to make that half-hearted relationship into something more.
How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?
I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.
It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?