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Situations where he would normally rage at me until I caved in, he is backing off and “apologizing” (I use quotation marks because its not a true apology), and though he usually follows up with reasons why he is hurt by my actions, it’s better than the anger.Basically, in a way, I am giving him exactly what he needs to make all about him and let him play “poor little me” (incidentally, that is exactly the tactic he used in telling me about his girlfriend before me).Do not forget, these actions are not based on logical thought processes, or even conscious thought processes, but on deeply embedded personality traits.(WARNING: YOU CAN NOT CHANGE THE NARCISSIST.This is not intended to try and help you make him into the man you once thought he was.To avoid any confusion I want to be very clear about the following: I am not a therapist (I am M.
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Ironically, with my Narc, my using this behavior has resulted in the rather unexpected result of him backing off with the anger and rages.
He seems to be going back to trying to be charming and lure me back in.
Then, I had to take kid one to school and came home again, a little mellowed out.
The Narc apologized (hah) and I got to doing some research. Turns out, I really am the perfect narcissistic supply.