Dating after second divorce
She also recommends switching up your routine, which could mean anything from taking a different path to your office to trying a new coffee shop instead of your old standby. House suggests digging deeper than you usually would in conversations to learn more about people, places, and things.
“It helped, because I got to see what 'normal' looked like,” Roché says.
"If you're a gym junkie, get outside and learn something new: hike, walk, join a running meetup group," says House.
Trying something new will help you rediscover parts of yourself that might have gone missing — potentially help you meet a new love interest. Strike up a conversation with someone in the grocery line – whatever feels the most comfortable to you.
Your past experiences made you the dynamic and layered person you are today.
It allows someone to understand you and why you are how you are, and it contributes to three important dating conversations: where you were, where you are, and where are you going."Newton says it's extra important for divorced people to not compare their date to their former spouse.