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The problem is, I don’t have any feeling that says, “I want to be near this person a lot.” Granted, he hasn’t blatantly come out and asked me out yet (and if he doesn’t, I’m not going to say anything), but I definitely don’t want to lead him on or make him feel like he’s always the guy who gets “friend-zoned” or something when chances are the problem’s with me, and my lack of hormones, and not with him. And only if you’d be doing it for yourself and not because your friends think it’s time.
The thing is, I honestly think I’m one of those women out there with a fairly low libido, or maybe I’m demisexual or something, I don’t know. It’s quite possible that, as you get to know people in date-like settings, something will click and there be a “switch,” as you say, where your hormones start sending messages to your brain that there’s a possible connection.
Because the idea of spending a romantic evening with someone I only want to have good conversation with doesn’t seem right. Out of you whole letter (which was even a couple of paragraphs longer before I edited it), the line that stood out to me the most was this: “I was never particularly worried about any of this until my friends made a big deal about it.” And that just sucks, because maybe your friends mean well, but what they’re doing — making you feel like you have a problem when you don’t — is cruel. I can’t say that what you feel about dating and sex and being (or not being) attracted or interested in anyone romantically is , necessarily, but I also don’t see it as anything to worry about at all. What does your lack of romantic interest in anyone mean? Any time any of us goes out with someone, we are playing a game of “Is this a match? If you realize that it isn’t a match, you have still fulfilled your end of the bargain by giving it a shot. If it’s effort you can mostly enjoy, either because you enjoy the company of others or the effort is bringing you closer to knowing yourself or you simply really, really like getting coffee with people, then go for it.When I was young, dumb and immature – I had this belief that relationships, marriage, children and monogamy were an absolute necessity in life.During my teens I treated this as if it was a rudimentary aspect of being an adult in the 21st century, and the next step in life; ‘the right direction’, if you will.Do you know of other women who only started noticing guys in their late twenties or early thirties? It’s ok if you’re still figuring out who, exactly, you are, and what you like and what turns you on.I don’t know that any of us ever totally know ourselves.