Not playing games dating
But a bit ironic, given that MEN themselves are masters of game playing in relationships.
In fact, the tough love coaching I give my clients is aimed at protecting women from falling victim to such games. I’m sure female readers could cite hundreds of examples.
We’ve used frames a lot for the sake of getting sexually intimate with women quickly…
now let’s look at the power of frames in the context of exclusive relationships a bit more. Ricardus was one of the most prolific and respected coaches in the men’s dating advice industry. Ricardus is currently retired from the dating advice industry.
months, it’s women who have the most to lose, as time is our most precious, non-renewable resource.
Yet, as we mature, we outgrow these games and learn to date without them.
Remember, you’re dating to find somebody special, and that shouldn’t require manipulation or following some sort of playbook. They want a partner who is interesting, challenging, exciting, and fun, but that doesn’t mean the relationship has to be difficult.
Some people may confuse these two ideas and think an interesting person automatically equals a more challenging relationship.
Others think that being an independent person means relationships can’t be easy because they are used to not depending on another.